Coping With, Resolving & Moving Beyond Infertility



Well & Beyond’s comprehensive program blends couples, individual and group infertility counseling with mind/body medicine approaches. Our format is designed to meet the unique needs of each individual and couple facing infertility.


Why Counseling and Mind-Body Medicine for Infertility?

Dealing with infertility can bring about distress and even crisis. For many couples, this will be one of the most difficult challenges they will ever face together. How each individual copes with the emotional ups and downs of infertility depends upon personality, relationships, and life-experience. Research shows that individuals and couples who participate in counseling and stress reduction programs feel better about their relationships and have fewer symptoms of emotional and physical stress. Since psychological support significantly raises birth rates, they also increase their chances of becoming parents.


Well & Beyond’s Infertility Program can:

  • Help you cope with the stress of infertility.
  • Reverse negative psychological effects of infertility.
  • Increase your sense of control and well-being.
  • Provide important information and access to resources.
  • Help you sort out options and alternatives.
  • Help you communicate more effectively with your medical caregivers.
  • Help you relax and feel at ease with medical treatment procedures.
  • Help resolve conflicts and distress between partners.
  • Revitalize your relationship.
  • Improve your chances of becoming a parent.
  • Help you enjoy life again.


Program Components include:

Couples-Centered Consultation & Needs Assessment

Couples Infertility Counseling

Individual Infertility Counseling

Infertility Groups


Couples-Centered Consultation & Needs Assessment

We consider it important to have both partners involved in the Consultation and Needs Assessment phase of our program, since both partners are affected by the distress of infertility.

During this initial consultation, we carefully consider the couple’s unique circumstances to determine the type of services, resources and information that will best benefit the partners individually or as a couple. This assessment includes both partners’ goals and strategies for resolving the infertility crisis, their reproductive family histories, relationship concerns, psychological challenges, symptoms of stress and coping skills. A male/female co-therapist team usually conducts these sessions.

The consultation concludes with recommendations for further services, if appropriate. We help the couple formulate a plan to resolve and move beyond the crisis. This plan weaves together the couple’s medical treatment options with the goals, length and forms of infertility counseling (individual, couple or group) and other strategies. The partner’s medical specialist will be consulted if necessary. A follow-up visit will be arranged after three to six months to evaluate the progress made and discuss any necessary changes.

Well & Beyond has found this format to be an effective way to help the couple start resolving and moving beyond the crisis. Couples report that they gain hope, ‘see light at the end of a black tunnel’ and find new perspectives on their situation as a result of the consultation.


Couples Infertility Counseling

Couples Infertility Counseling can reduce relational stress and increase mutual support, communication, satisfaction and understanding within the partnership.

We will examine what impact the infertility diagnosis had on the couple. The therapy work focuses on helping partners develop empathy for each other and gain understanding of how each partner has been affected by the diagnosis. Gender differences in coping with infertility and family of origin beliefs on reproduction and being a parent will be incorporated.

The couple will receive the support they need as they sort through their options and make important reproductive decisions.

In those cases where infertility has interfered with the couple’s sexual relationship, the partners will receive help to resolve these difficulties.

The couple will learn how to refocus their attention from the all-consuming infertility issue to those aspects of their relationship that can bring them mutual joy and contentment


Individual Infertility Counseling

This form of therapy is recommended when one partner needs specialized help to resolve emotional and psychological issues connected with infertility. This might be the case in symptoms of moderate to severe depression. It can also be helpful when the distress of infertility is compounded by other difficulties, such as a history of past trauma or abuse or an eating disorder. Individual infertility counseling offers the opportunity to explore in greater depth concerns related to reproductive health. It’s also a chance to develop an individualized infertility stress reduction program, if needed.


Infertility Groups

Well & Beyond’s infertility groups are modeled on the program developed by Dr. A. Domar at the Mind/Body Medical Institute, Harvard Medical School, and Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital in Boston.

Dr. Domar’s program has been extensively researched and has received much attention in the media as an effective way to reduce physical and emotional stress and to significantly increase viable pregnancy rates.

We offer different types of groups. Some are primarily designed for women, with their partners included in only some of the sessions. In other groups both partners are welcome at all sessions.

Infertility groups typically include the following components:

  • A variety of relaxation techniques

Participants learn to elicit the relaxation response, a state of deep rest, beneficial for the reduction of emotional and physical symptoms of stress.

  • Coping skills

Participants learn strategies that help them meet difficult life situations related to infertility in a more skillful and empowered way.

  • Cognitive Restructuring Strategies

Participants learn to change pessimistic thought processes to more realistic ways of thinking.

  • Mindfulness -Based Stress Reduction

Participants practice to become aware on a moment-to-moment basis. A mindfulness-based approach is helpful to get through difficult life situations more gracefully. It enhances one’s ability to enjoy the present.

  • Yoga and stretching exercises

Participants learn easy to-do stretches that help release tension.

  • Group support

Participants overcome their sense of isolation through the support of others who share the experience of infertility.

  • Nutrition management

Participants learn the nutritional aspects of supporting a healthy reproductive system.

  • Lecture and group exercises

Participants gain understanding on how factors such as lifestyle, stress, diet, physical tension, as well as societal and family messages on reproduction can affect health and fertility.

 

 

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